Circle jerk

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3D representation of a circle jerk involving adult males

A circle jerk, also sometimes spelled circlejerk, is a sexual practice in which a group of men form a circle and masturbate or touch each other's genitals. The term circle jerk is also used to refer to self-congratulatory behavior.

Circle jerks often feature a competitive element, with the "winner" being the participant able to ejaculate first, last, or farthest depending on the pre-established rules.[1][2] They can serve as an introduction to sexual relations with other males, or as a sexual outlet at an age or situation when regular sexual activity with another person is not possible.[1]

While circle jerks feature a homoerotic element, some analysts interpret adolescent boys' group activities such as circle jerks as an effort to establish heterosexual, masculine dominance within the group.[1][2][3] American sociologist Bernard Lefkowitz states that what actually motivates participation is the desire for friends to witness and acknowledge one's sexual prowess, helping to counter teenage feelings of inadequacy related to sexual activity.[3]

In a figurative sense, the term is used to refer to self-congratulatory behavior or discussion among a group of people, usually in reference to a "boring or time-wasting meeting or other event".[1] On Reddit, the term is used to mock self-congratulatory behavior and circular discussions.[4] BuzzFeed News described /r/circlejerk as a "subreddit devoted to the mockery of all of Reddit's various vanities, sanctimonies, and canards,"[5] and New York magazine reported that "any sufficiently popular subreddit eventually spawns a 'circlejerk' counterpart in which users mock the host subreddit".[6]

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References

  1. Peter Francis Murphy (12 February 2001). Studs, tools, and the family jewels: metaphors men live by. University of Wisconsin Press. pp. 66–67. ISBN 978-0-299-17130-8. Retrieved 20 February 2011.
  2. Jay Mechling (1 May 2004). On My Honor: Boy Scouts and the Making of American Youth. University of Chicago Press. p. 292. ISBN 978-0-226-51705-6. Retrieved 20 February 2011.
  3. Bernard Lefkowitz (11 July 1997). Our guys: the Glen Ridge rape and the secret life of the perfect suburb. University of California Press. pp. 243–244. ISBN 978-0-520-20596-3. Retrieved 20 February 2011.
  4. Mueller, Christopher (2016-12-22). "Positive Feedback Loops: Sarcasm and the Pseudo-Argument in Reddit Communities". Studies in Applied Linguistics and TESOL. 16 (2). doi:10.7916/salt.v16i2.1258. ISSN 2689-193X.
  5. "The Funniest Site In Gaming". BuzzFeed News. Archived from the original on 2026-06-02. Retrieved 2026-06-02.
  6. Herrman, John (2025-07-22). "Why You Are Reading Reddit a Lot More These Days". Intelligencer. Retrieved 2026-06-02.