User:MEN KISSING

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This user is transgender bisexual.
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Mathematics.
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MEN KISSING
 Wikipedian transfem 
Me (currently between places)
Me (currently between places)
Current locationSouthern California
Time zonePacific time
HeightThis big 🤏
Contact info
EmailHere!
DiscordEmail me and ask!
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AdministratorNo, but I'd like to be one day!
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Hello there! I'm MEN KISSING! You can also call me MenK for short. I'm an undergraduate college student, born in July of 2003, currently pursuing my bachelor's in pure mathematics. That is also the subject matter I am primarily interested in contributing to on Wikipedia.

I don't bite!

I like helping out over at the Teahouse and at the help desk. If you want any help from me directly, feel free to ask over on my talk page, and I'll try to help you out as best as I can!

Wikipedia

As I mentioned, I am interested in contributing to mathematics in the future.

As for what I currently do on Wikipedia: I am contributing at WP:RFD, chiming in on some threads at WP:ANI, and I'm helping folks out at the Teahouse and at the help desk. That's about it so far.

My signature looks like this: MEN KISSING (she/they) Talk to me, I don't bite! - Solidarity

Wikipedia is a cool website. I don't know if you've ever heard of it. If I had to give it a grade, I would give it a solid B, leaning towards a B+.

If you're a Caves of Qud fan, let me know! I want to make the userbox I have more customizable.

Major editing milestones
Edit no.PageDescription
1st editCauchy's convergence testThe only newcomer task I've ever done.
500th editWikipedia:Redirects for discussion/Log/2026 February 10The edit that likely got me XC. Suggesting what to do with WP:NCNAMEWP:NCNAME.
1,000th editWikipedia:Administrator's noticeboard/IncidentsConcurring with an editor that San Diego is far away from San Francisco, plus a little joke.


About me

I am transgender! I started Hormone Replacement Therapy a few months ago. It's been going great! Thank you for asking! I also consider myself non-binary. Words can't quite capture my perception of my own gender identity, and I think that is okay! You don't need to worry about it. I prefer she/her or they/them pronouns.

I like video games, but as a rule I only play indies or big budget titles from before 2010.

I don't have a strong interest in music. I usually prefer silence when I'm doing productive things, or if I'm playing a game, I just listen to the ingame music.

I am plural, as you can see in my userboxes! If you're unfamiliar with the concept, see morethanone.info or User:Tamzin/Plurality_and_multiplicity_FAQ[note 1]. Plurality, to me feels more like a useful framework for navigating disassociative moods rather than a mental condition. I could live my life not considering myself to be plural, but existing just makes a lot more sense if I participate in plurality. Feel free to ask about my system or my other headmates! The working name for our system is "The Bunburrows". You also don't need to worry about any of this, at least for now. Only one headmate (me) contributes to Wikipedia.

I just noticed, as of writing, that you have an option on the tools bar to send me an email. That's great! Do that, please! Send me cool pictures of animals! Or whatever! Cool!

  1. Experiences of plurality vary, but this essay describes our own experiences pretty well. One thing is, our system doesn't experience much partial amnesia.

How did you come up with your name?

I came up with this name a bit before I joined Wikipedia, as my handle for playing Unreal Tournament online. When it comes to player models, UT99 doesn't shy away from more provocative depictions of the human form. Additionally, the server I was playing on was configured to show explicit artwork at the start of every match, for whatever reason. Neither of those things I personally find distasteful, but when it's appealing exclusively to the demographic of straight men, it makes a gal like me me feel left out. I wanted to change my handle for a reason I don't recall, and I was in a headspace of trying to think of a name that would be:

  1. Really funny
  2. Boldly, and brazenly queer
  3. Not obviously inappropriate (so as to not invite pushback)

There was no workshopping; I simply had "MEN KISSING", all caps, pop into my head, and I immediately realized it was the perfect username. That is what I wanted people to see on the leaderboard when I top-fragged.

A few months after that, I finally decided to stop lurking Wikipedia and make an account, and I had my heart set on re-using that name. I actually had to request my account via WP:ACC, since there was already a user with a similar name (who, IIRC, had made a grand total of zero contributions).

There has been at least one person who has taken offense to my name. However, the overwhelming consensus seems to be that not only is my name perfectly appropriate, it's actually really cool. Since my account could only exist with approval of the admin who had to create my account for me, I was confident I had an acceptable username from day one.

Contact me

As you can with any Wikipedia user, you may post to my talk page at User_talk:MEN KISSING.

You can also contact me privately via Special:EmailUser/MEN_KISSING, as long as you're autoconfirmed.

I also have Discord! If you'd like to reach out to me there, send me your discord handle via email, and I might send you a message. I reserve the right to not do so, though - I'd rather only reach out to folks I think I'd be good friends with off-wiki.

Guestbook

  • Meow. MEN KISSING (she/they) T - C - Email me! 05:31, 7 February 2026 (UTC)
  • FIRST (not counting you) dot.py 05:56, 7 February 2026 (UTC)
  • chirps at you all 🫀 Crash // Organhaver ( it / he|talk to me, maybe? ) 06:04, 7 February 2026 (UTC)
  • top 5, just like my goat Kareem Abdul Jabar LeBron. Thanks for inspiring me to create my first Lua module BronMeat talk 12:06, 7 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Well, looks like you could use some signatures. Here's one from me :) TheTechie[she/they] | talk? 18:45, 7 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Nice to see some fujoshi representation on Wikipedia. :3 Respair (talk) 05:24, 8 February 2026 (UTC)
  • hi LuniZunie(talk) 22:10, 9 February 2026 (UTC)
  • - Flower (she/her) 15:14, 11 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Hello! Chess enjoyer (talk) 17:02, 11 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Don't let the space bugs bite!! ‧₊˚✩Sillymabs✩˚₊‧ 17:16, 12 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Your username always makes me smile. Hello! WindTempos she/they (talkcontribs) 17:19, 12 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Hi! Happy Valentine's Day... Duly signed, Volten001 18:00, 14 February 2026 (UTC)
  •  Done. Hello there! Greetings from Belgrade, Serbia. Kudos for an original username. Cheers! — Sundostund mppria (talk / contribs) 06:58, 15 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Hi Men Kissing. Thanks for doing this and similar. ϢereSpielChequers 11:19, 16 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Hello there! This may be one of the greatest usernames I've seen on wikipedia! Namikura (talk) 15:57, 16 February 2026 (UTC)
  • thought i would be on here already - guess not User "Oreocooke" (speak of the sun and it shines) 07:46, 17 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Likely the greatest username of all time.   Jalapeño   (u t g) 09:53, 17 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Hilarous username and wonderful work on making Wikipedia a welcoming site. ᴸᵃᶠᶠʸTaffer💬(they/she) 17:55, 19 February 2026 (UTC)
  • I don't usually sign guest books but your username is too funny for me not to. Panamitsu 01:29, 23 February 2026 (UTC)
  • up there with Fish and karate on my list of the best usernames 😄 theleekycauldron (talk • she/her) 21:16, 23 February 2026 (UTC)
  • amazing username, wish I came up with that. literally laughed when i randomly saw you in an otherwise serious discussion, what is wrong with me CorrectionsJackal (correct me) 08:12, 25 February 2026 (UTC)
  • That's wild. toby (t)(c)(rw)(omo) 22:23, 25 February 2026 (UTC)
  • Was also reading a serious discussion and got distracted by the name. Great game taste btw and best of luck with HRT. I don't know a good name. (talk) 13:56, 1 March 2026 (UTC)
  • Hiya~! Nice username, but I like it, lol. :3 —KuyaMoHirowo (talkcontribs) 04:55, 6 March 2026 (UTC)
  • That's quite a ... unique username. I like it. MiasmaEternal 20:56, 12 March 2026 (UTC)
  • Hello people! (Love your username btw, very bold of you) GuesanLoyalist (talk) 03:48, 18 March 2026 (UTC)
  • This editor holds the record for the most Username Barnstars received on the English Wikipedia! 11WB (talk) 00:43, 20 March 2026 (UTC)
  • Yeah, the username never gets old. Viva la horde, ~ GoatLordServant(Talk) 15:14, 25 March 2026 (UTC)
  • I appreciate the connection between the plural username and the plural editor. Sesquilinear (talk) 21:17, 25 March 2026 (UTC)
  • hello Versions111 (talkcontribs) 11:53, 27 March 2026 (UTC)
  • hello as well frankie 07:27, 1 April 2026 (UTC)
  • Waiting on User:WOMEN KISSING so we can have a yaoi/yuri showdown Based5290 :3 (talk) 21:34, 5 April 2026 (UTC)
  • Nice username! BlueStaticHorse (talk)(they/them) 18:56, 6 April 2026 (UTC)
  • This is the right time to sign ~ŤheŴubṂachine-840 19:57, 8 April 2026 (UTC)
  • HelloWOMEN KISSING (talk) 17:55, 23 April 2026 (UTC)
  • Username👍 DPRKBEST (talk) 05:20, 25 April 2026 (UTC)
  • Your username is hilarious! GrinningIodize (talk) 13:02, 25 April 2026 (UTC)
  • love the username!Plasticponies (talk) 22:40, 25 April 2026 (UTC)
  • The username is… interesting… - coolgurl5555 ✈︎ (she/her) ✈︎ 02:29, 26 April 2026 (UTC)
  • uhhh, yeah. but, congratulations! you've gotten an signature from ahr himself. also, u have a really weird username, but im fine. AltoHampton (talk here) (le contrebutions) 01:10, 27 April 2026 (UTC)
  • Nice username. - Sebbog13 (talk) 13:16, 27 April 2026 (UTC)
  • zayum that name is lowky fire - SkzFanXoxo (talk) 1:18 AM, 28 April 2026
  •  Task complete. You're welcome! Huggums537voted! (sign🖋️|📞talk) 04:57, 1 May 2026 (UTC)
  • Your name stood out while looking through the teahouse, Its very cool Goetia [She/they/any] (talk) 16:52, 3 May 2026 (UTC)
  • This is a signature made by Beta Beta Beta in a guestbook made by MEN KISSING. At the time of writing the signature (in EST), it was 4:43 PM on May 5th, 2026. Beta Beta Beta - talk 20:43, 9 May 2026 (UTC)
  • I've been reading non-mainspace pages for over 2 years, and I have never seen a wackier username. Can't sleep, clown will eat me gets somewhat close, but MEN KISSING easily takes the cake, by far. Props to you for being the first one ever to take up such a username! Truly one of the boldest acts one could ever endeavour to. - BlueEleephant (talk · contribs) 18:50, 10 May 2026 (UTC)
  • Just stopping by. GeogSage (⚔Chat?⚔) 22:28, 13 May 2026 (UTC)
  • Cheers! Pikkupapupata 💌 🌷 04:47, 18 May 2026 (UTC)
  • Love your username!!:D :D Rooney!chatter
  • So, obviously, it appears you may have an interesting username! Lots of love from Tennessee <3 ---- jan Manisijun (Magnesium) (talk) (contribs) 04:34, 25 May 2026 (UTC)
  • Hello, fellow she/they! Nice username! Also, congrats on the hrt. I wish you the best of luck with it! Cynthia Muldoon (talk) 00:43, 26 May 2026 (UTC)
  • I never sign guestbooks, but your username is fantastic, so I had to do it. Vacant0 (talk contribs) 16:11, 26 May 2026 (UTC)
  • 53rd! Mrfoogles (talk) 01:23, 27 May 2026 (UTC)
  • Hey there! Your username and signature were attention-grabbing enough for me to click over to your userpage, and I'm glad I did XD Always nice to find other nonbinary and trans folk milling about over here!—Also, thanks for your discussion of your plurality on your userpage; plurality is one of those things I never feel like I really understand beyond the medicalised psychiatric descriptions of DID and some of plurality's role as a response to trauma (I do my best to respect plural folk without fully understanding it, of course!), and I found your perspectives on the role of plurality in your life enlightened me just a little bit more. Laogeodritt [ Talk | Contribs ] 06:08, 27 May 2026 (UTC)
  • The first time my eyes laid upon your username, I spit out my coffee. It's just so... perfect. I can't think of a more better name than MEN KISSING. Happy for the HRT by the way, and hope ya succeed! ★ Campssitie (msg) (in solidarity, #943) 🧋🏖 07:22, 4 June 2026 (UTC)
  • Sorry, but I had to sign this guestbook. The username is just too perfect and right up my alley of weird and frankly terrible humour. Still waiting for User:WOMEN KISSING though! — Yelps ᘛ⁠⁐̤⁠ᕐ⁠ᐷ critique me 08:04, 4 June 2026 (UTC)
  • Men kissing, women kissing, enbies kissing, kissing at home, kissing across the world. (Seriously, it's always great to see you in wikidiscussions fighting the good fight. Keep it up!) MSG17 (talk) 12:34, 8 June 2026 (UTC)
  • def one of the best names on this damned app; keep fighting the good fight (and as a new user i strive to be like u <3)!! Pearlescenceeee (talk) 05:03, 9 June 2026 (UTC)
  • absolute cinema, they say shakespeare truly isn't dead >:3c Nrco0e (talkcontribs) 03:31, 12 June 2026 (UTC)
  • seeing your user out and about on the wiki always makes me puff a little air out of my nose, so take this sig as a token of my graditude, happy editing! InRRainbows Lets chat! 09:21, 12 June 2026 (UTC)
  • hey sstanleycaris (SHOO!) 21:23, 20 June 2026 (UTC)
  • Hello, I appreciate your username! Purple, the Maker (You're welcome to say something!) 13:54, 25 June 2026 (UTC)
  • Guess my surprise when I look at the Wiki Workers United page and saw "MEN KISSING" as one of the first signatures, lol. Amazing username. Dragonhawk12 (talk) (Guestbook) (Wikicats) 19:20, 25 June 2026 (UTC)

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